Yu Zhe's favourite game is to hide behind the curtains and play peek-a-boo.
Day in day out without failed, will always play that.
Zhe's hit me 2 times on my face this evening.
I asked him to apologise to me and I hit his little hand lightly 2x to let him knew what he did was wrong. He keeps crying and crying, refusing to say sorry.
Then I closed my room door and he walked out to find MIL.
Kena spoilt by my ILs le. Everytime I disciplined him, they will asked him not to cry and then offered him something to stop her from crying. I was tried not to let them be involved when I disciplined.
I told him that he was being rude to hit mummy and now I have to start discipline him if not when he is older he wont listen. It would be too late to discipline him then. If I dun correct him now, he will ends up hitting anyone in the family. I dun want him to be a spoilt brat.
After about 5 minutes, Zhe's finally say SORRY to me. Gave him a hug and tell him that he is a good boy and he should not hit anyone.
Spoke to daddy too after this.
Think he also agree with what I did.
Frankly speaking if this is too early to discipline and correct the kids then what is the rite age? If start after 2years old, will he listen and will it be easy to start disciplining?
It is best to start from young. Whether he understands or not, but if I am consistent in putting the message across, he will gets it.
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fren, now u r already facing this problem... Arrgh,it's really headache. But i think u've cope with the proper way. And at least he has apologize to u.
But sometimes realy hard to handle him... u scold him, he cries loud loud.. pengsan.. He oso a bit sturborn!! must his mood oso... ;<
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