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Tuesday, October 30, 2007

BOY OR GIRL

I’m lucky that I have a boy. Why? Because in a traditional Chinese family, there may just be pressure from your relatives to have a son. When I was pregnant 2 years ago, my mom-in-law never once asked me about the sex of the baby. Not that she didn’t care but she was a very considerate old lady who didn’t want to be seen as giving me undue pressure. And the fact that she didn’t dare to ask me made it even more obvious that she was hoping for a boy. Of course, she did ask my husband and when told it’s most probably a boy, she was still worried that it may turn out to be a girl.

My auty had 2 little daughter and she just gave birth a bb boy last saturday 27/10/2007 by C-Section. And she told me her hubby done a funny things just now thru phones....when she changed her son diapers, her hubby can just spoke to her like this'' wait.. wait.. dun cover back de diaper first.. I wanna see my son ''little bird.. bird!! So weird her hubby... and so fast her hubby get ready his son birth cert as well by Monday instead compare the last two daughter's experiences!!
Right now, my auty was so happy she at last get a boy at her age 38 year Old. I was so happy to her too.... bcos a long stories behinds during her pregnancy.... Congratualation... my 阿珠姑姑 ;D

Of course, nowadays, having a son is not a must although in many instances, it is still preferred. Anyway, people do not directly badger you to have a son these days but they do drop subtle hints. Hence, if I had two's girl, I think the question “When are you going to have another baby?” will be heard even more often. It could be another way of telling you to try for a boy.

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