Thursday, December 31, 2009
Monday, December 07, 2009
Happy Birthday to me and my lil boy....
Time really flies.. now was December... 2009 going to end soon... 2010 was coming .. whoosh.. a brand new year...
below was taken during OUR Bday... my lil son was 4 year old's already... wishing him always cheerful, healthies, blissful... I love you my little darling... ;P
below was taken during OUR Bday... my lil son was 4 year old's already... wishing him always cheerful, healthies, blissful... I love you my little darling... ;P
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Genting Trip ~ 10/10 - 11/10/2009
~ 2 little princess...
~~ Meimei with Wei wei ... they are 2 mth's different.. Meimei older than her.. but Wei Wei size was bigger... hahahaha
~ Yu Zhe's so lucky...
~ so cute...
~~ 3 Litlle friends... so cute... ;D
~ Sweet girls..
~ cheeky Meimei like to act like this when taking photos... ;P
~~ took at Mushroom Farm outside, after dinner.. let them kids play around and snap some photos.. is time to go back Melaka... home sweet home.. ;P
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
200......200 post
Finally my blog hit 200 post after 2 years started this blog.. actually can hit ealier just due to my laziness... hehehhe...
below photos taken during mid August at home and studio bcos my youngest SIL convocation at UPM... tht why's got flowers.. bear... ;D
below photos taken during mid August at home and studio bcos my youngest SIL convocation at UPM... tht why's got flowers.. bear... ;D
Tuesday, September 08, 2009
arggh.... hate to sick... pass few days was down with fever and throat pain.. now my mouth got ulcer make so suffer when drink and eat...
all bcos the stupid wisdom tooth... why lebih lebih tooth growing out for wht if for no purpose... #@!*%^ hate... shit..
tomorrow will go abstract all.. arh.. God's bless me...
all bcos the stupid wisdom tooth... why lebih lebih tooth growing out for wht if for no purpose... #@!*%^ hate... shit..
tomorrow will go abstract all.. arh.. God's bless me...
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Its True!!! ;D
NINE WORDS WOMEN USE
(1) Fine : This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.
(2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.
(3) Nothing : This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.
(4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!
(5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)
(6) That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
(7) Thanks : A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' . Thatwill bring on a 'whatever').
(8) Whatever : Is a woman's way of saying F-- YOU!
(9) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.
(1) Fine : This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.
(2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.
(3) Nothing : This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.
(4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!
(5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)
(6) That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
(7) Thanks : A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' . Thatwill bring on a 'whatever').
(8) Whatever : Is a woman's way of saying F-- YOU!
(9) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.
阿拉伯諺語：
『你若不想做，會找到一個藉口；你若想做，會找到一個方法』
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『 成熟的人是要改變自己來面對自己的問題...』
一次在美國哈佛大學聽了一場演講，題目是如何做一個成熟的人，聽完以後感慨良多啊！
原本以為自己很成熟，後來才知道原來自己還是不成熟的。
他的第一句話說：「成熟的人是要改變自己來面對自己的問題 」，
你想想看在你週遭的家人朋友愛人中誰會去改變自己，不管改多改少，
如果有在改，你將會發現他遇到了困難越來越少，
處理事情來越來越得心應手，自然就會散發出成熟的魅力。
回想一下小孩子的行為模式，今天他要到一顆糖，他用的方法是吵鬧哭，
他絕對不會想到把自己變的乖一點就有糖吃，各位想想看，
你是否有一些觀念是錯誤的，違背了社會風俗而你卻不願去改變，
只用一些藉口說，那是根深蒂固的思想，
所以沒辦法改，那你跟小孩子的行為有什麼不同呢，
你自己根本沒資格去衡量別人成不成熟。
因為 別人至少有在改， 只是慢了一點，
你不能因為別人的學歷和生活的環境不同，
就認為他不成熟，或許他做錯了事，
觀念錯了都肯去修改，而你呢？？
曾經有位學生在上課中問我說，她和她的男友已交往一兩年了，
不過，她發現她男朋友好像進步很慢，好像都是她在拉拔他，
所以，她要和她分手，不過，他男朋友這時才振作起來決定要努力，
那位同學問我說，那我是不是要繼續和他在一起，
因為，我覺得他好不成熟喔！
我只對他說，如果，妳這時候離開他是最不成熟的表現，
因為，你們都遇到了困難，而妳卻把難題留下來給他一個人，
自己就像鴕鳥一樣的躲開，所以，我建議妳在這時候要幫他成長，
在現在這種情況下，妳的一句獎勵的話，妳的陪伴，妳的愛，
都勝過其他人的一百倍一千倍，一個人，
好不容易有想改想變的念頭，
那只是剛開始燃燒的火，如果妳這時候離他而去，
那就像拿一桶水把火澆熄了。
如果，妳要離開他應該是他有成就時才離開，這樣才是成熟的表現，
不過，我想妳這時候也不會想離開他吧？！
五年後那個學生回來謝謝我，當初要不是聽了我的話，
他現在也不會是某年輕企業家的老婆了，
又有一次我在路上遇到一位搭便車了的少女，看她上車後紅著雙眼，
我問她：「小姐妳沒事吧。」她卻哭了出來，
她說他剛和她老公辦完了離婚手續，
原因是太多觀念不一樣，我就跟她說，
在美國做過一項調查，婚姻生活到六十歲還維持美滿的夫妻中，
有 99%他們的另一半，不是合乎當初他們心目中的人選，
理念多半不相同，而且幾乎都是其中一個愛另一個多，
我問他們，那為什麼婚姻還能美滿的維持呢？
他們說，如果， 遇到 理念不同 時，就是要提出來互相討論 ，而不是爭論,
而且，要在適當的時機，例如約會時，洗澡時，做愛時都是很好的時機，
而 雙方都要去改，不能堅持己見，明明是錯誤的觀念不去改 ，
說什麼已經根深蒂固之類的話，哪只是逃避，是很不成熟的行為。
所以，我跟她說 天下沒有完全相和的人 ，
牙齒都會咬到舌頭了，何況是 兩個成長在不同環境的人的人呢？
所以，妳要努力改變自己來適應他，他也要努力的改變自己來適應妳，
不管是誰只要有錯的觀念就要改知道嗎？
三年後我在一場言講會的後台，再次遇到那位女子，她來謝謝我，
說她那天回家後，馬上打電話給老公，把我的話說給他聽，
現在，他們已經又結婚了三年有兩個小寶寶，生活上都沒有衝突，
沒想到當初那麼不合的兩個人，現在生活卻很美滿。
各位朋友想想看你是不是有這些缺點呢，妳夠不夠成熟ㄋ？！
要罵別人不成熟時，要先想想自己喔！
阿拉伯諺語：
『你若不想做，會找到一個藉口；你若想做，會找到一個方法』
『你若不想做，會找到一個藉口；你若想做，會找到一個方法』
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『 成熟的人是要改變自己來面對自己的問題...』
一次在美國哈佛大學聽了一場演講，題目是如何做一個成熟的人，聽完以後感慨良多啊！
原本以為自己很成熟，後來才知道原來自己還是不成熟的。
他的第一句話說：「成熟的人是要改變自己來面對自己的問題 」，
你想想看在你週遭的家人朋友愛人中誰會去改變自己，不管改多改少，
如果有在改，你將會發現他遇到了困難越來越少，
處理事情來越來越得心應手，自然就會散發出成熟的魅力。
回想一下小孩子的行為模式，今天他要到一顆糖，他用的方法是吵鬧哭，
他絕對不會想到把自己變的乖一點就有糖吃，各位想想看，
你是否有一些觀念是錯誤的，違背了社會風俗而你卻不願去改變，
只用一些藉口說，那是根深蒂固的思想，
所以沒辦法改，那你跟小孩子的行為有什麼不同呢，
你自己根本沒資格去衡量別人成不成熟。
因為 別人至少有在改， 只是慢了一點，
你不能因為別人的學歷和生活的環境不同，
就認為他不成熟，或許他做錯了事，
觀念錯了都肯去修改，而你呢？？
曾經有位學生在上課中問我說，她和她的男友已交往一兩年了，
不過，她發現她男朋友好像進步很慢，好像都是她在拉拔他，
所以，她要和她分手，不過，他男朋友這時才振作起來決定要努力，
那位同學問我說，那我是不是要繼續和他在一起，
因為，我覺得他好不成熟喔！
我只對他說，如果，妳這時候離開他是最不成熟的表現，
因為，你們都遇到了困難，而妳卻把難題留下來給他一個人，
自己就像鴕鳥一樣的躲開，所以，我建議妳在這時候要幫他成長，
在現在這種情況下，妳的一句獎勵的話，妳的陪伴，妳的愛，
都勝過其他人的一百倍一千倍，一個人，
好不容易有想改想變的念頭，
那只是剛開始燃燒的火，如果妳這時候離他而去，
那就像拿一桶水把火澆熄了。
如果，妳要離開他應該是他有成就時才離開，這樣才是成熟的表現，
不過，我想妳這時候也不會想離開他吧？！
五年後那個學生回來謝謝我，當初要不是聽了我的話，
他現在也不會是某年輕企業家的老婆了，
又有一次我在路上遇到一位搭便車了的少女，看她上車後紅著雙眼，
我問她：「小姐妳沒事吧。」她卻哭了出來，
她說他剛和她老公辦完了離婚手續，
原因是太多觀念不一樣，我就跟她說，
在美國做過一項調查，婚姻生活到六十歲還維持美滿的夫妻中，
有 99%他們的另一半，不是合乎當初他們心目中的人選，
理念多半不相同，而且幾乎都是其中一個愛另一個多，
我問他們，那為什麼婚姻還能美滿的維持呢？
他們說，如果， 遇到 理念不同 時，就是要提出來互相討論 ，而不是爭論,
而且，要在適當的時機，例如約會時，洗澡時，做愛時都是很好的時機，
而 雙方都要去改，不能堅持己見，明明是錯誤的觀念不去改 ，
說什麼已經根深蒂固之類的話，哪只是逃避，是很不成熟的行為。
所以，我跟她說 天下沒有完全相和的人 ，
牙齒都會咬到舌頭了，何況是 兩個成長在不同環境的人的人呢？
所以，妳要努力改變自己來適應他，他也要努力的改變自己來適應妳，
不管是誰只要有錯的觀念就要改知道嗎？
三年後我在一場言講會的後台，再次遇到那位女子，她來謝謝我，
說她那天回家後，馬上打電話給老公，把我的話說給他聽，
現在，他們已經又結婚了三年有兩個小寶寶，生活上都沒有衝突，
沒想到當初那麼不合的兩個人，現在生活卻很美滿。
各位朋友想想看你是不是有這些缺點呢，妳夠不夠成熟ㄋ？！
要罵別人不成熟時，要先想想自己喔！
阿拉伯諺語：
『你若不想做，會找到一個藉口；你若想做，會找到一個方法』
Monday, June 29, 2009
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OK the picture probably grab your attention, right?
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Contest ends on 31/8/2009, wish you and myself good luck ;D
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Another hiatus few week didnt update my blog.. ;D not really busy, just nothing to blog too..
for my little prince.. after the 2 week school holiday, yesterday he can wake up early and without crying or manja manja refuse go school like before after the March'09 one week break... good boy!!
1st week school holiday, he down with high fever and cough... haiss.. take 4-5 days he just recovered and the second week only asked him do his homework.. wrote 1-4, big and small capital from A-E & a-e and chinese was wrote 人, is not easy to ask him writing.. headache.. write few words he refuse to continue said that, I dunno how to write, tired already... aiyoh.. so small already can gave all sort of reason..
cant imagine, when each year coming he will give me what type of excuse anymore..
little princess.. tomorrow will having quaterly check up.. mummy waiting to know her current weigh bcos our hand will worn out if carry her long.. ;D but we all willing to worn out our hand lah.. bcos was a happy thing if see our children was healthy, can eat and sleep well..
we are lucky have Mary as our bbsitter.. she was very very sayang my girl.. and she willing to cook and buy good food for kids to eat... very capable to ''suap'' kids.. ;P
and this little meimei now can talking well already.. every one at home and bbsitter there.. all ''buay tahan'' her.. she can talk like an adult.. really funny and also a copy cat... she will follow what his brother have been doing and jealous if his brother never play with her.. ;D
for my little prince.. after the 2 week school holiday, yesterday he can wake up early and without crying or manja manja refuse go school like before after the March'09 one week break... good boy!!
1st week school holiday, he down with high fever and cough... haiss.. take 4-5 days he just recovered and the second week only asked him do his homework.. wrote 1-4, big and small capital from A-E & a-e and chinese was wrote 人, is not easy to ask him writing.. headache.. write few words he refuse to continue said that, I dunno how to write, tired already... aiyoh.. so small already can gave all sort of reason..
cant imagine, when each year coming he will give me what type of excuse anymore..
little princess.. tomorrow will having quaterly check up.. mummy waiting to know her current weigh bcos our hand will worn out if carry her long.. ;D but we all willing to worn out our hand lah.. bcos was a happy thing if see our children was healthy, can eat and sleep well..
we are lucky have Mary as our bbsitter.. she was very very sayang my girl.. and she willing to cook and buy good food for kids to eat... very capable to ''suap'' kids.. ;P
and this little meimei now can talking well already.. every one at home and bbsitter there.. all ''buay tahan'' her.. she can talk like an adult.. really funny and also a copy cat... she will follow what his brother have been doing and jealous if his brother never play with her.. ;D
Monday, May 25, 2009
HaPPy BiRtHDaY tO YoU...
Yeah... 24th May was my little princess 2 year old's birthday.. just a small celebration at home with own family...
and today 25th May was my sister Pei Chin 23rd Birthday ... Wishing my two lovelies.. Happy Birthday... always healthy and pretty... muacks..
and today 25th May was my sister Pei Chin 23rd Birthday ... Wishing my two lovelies.. Happy Birthday... always healthy and pretty... muacks..
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
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